Have you wondered sometimes when you quarreled with someone, they said something unrelated to the problem but the about the tone you used?
I came to understand, it means alot. By having irregular rhythm with low and high pitches and speed of talking, it all has different meanings.
- Anger
- Disbelief
- Boredom
- Sadness
- Affection
- Satisfaction
It would take a Degree period of time to truly explain what i am going to say. However, i think that to know the person's nature of speaking and to determine the message clearly is not easy but it will help alot.
Therefore, i hope this little guide will allow you to have better communication with others and misunderstandings will decrease. (:
P.S Things to note if you do not want to give the wrong information.
- Your body language when speaking (Is it contradicting itself?)
- Your rhythm of speech (To understand will let you know what kind of tone you are giving out)
- Do not be monotone, it is difficult for the other party to analyze what is going on