More than words

Have you wondered sometimes when you quarreled with someone, they said something unrelated to the problem but the about the tone you used?

I came to understand, it means alot. By having irregular rhythm with low and high pitches and speed of talking, it all has different meanings.

1. Anger
2. Disbelief
3. Boredom
4. Sadness
5. Affection
6. Satisfaction

It would take a Degree period of time to truly explain what i am going to say. However, i think that to know the person's nature of speaking and to determine the message clearly is not easy but it will help alot.

Therefore, i hope this little guide will allow you to have better communication with others and misunderstandings will decrease. (:

P.S Things to note if you do not want to give the wrong information.

• Your body language when speaking (Is it contradicting itself?)
• Your rhythm of speech (To understand will let you know what kind of tone you are giving out)
• Do not be monotone, it is difficult for the other party to analyze what is going on

Live your own

When you felt upset.
When you felt lonely.
When you felt useless.
When you felt hopeless.
When you felt devastated.

Who are the ones there for you every minute of the pain and the sufferings?
If there wasn't any, i beg you to move forward.
There would be no longer any point to keep holding onto them when they don't care.

Live fully for yourself. Not for the sake of someone else.
Compare only of yourself. Not to someone who is better than you.
Only to that point we can achieve what we call "Achievements".
Something which you surpasses yourself and you feel ultimately proud of it.

That's what I call life. Where things spice up within your own mighty hands.
Those can brings happiness but can also brings darkness.
Choose yourself.
Move on and find another flock and fly with them.

I cherish everyone of you.
I am moving on. Let's move on. :)

Love is..

Love is weird.
Love is miraculous.
Love is temporary.
Love is everlasting.
Love is heart aching.
Love is blissful.
Love is..

We have went through all these months, without any good days actually. However we encourage one another and try to go through it with a smile.

However, it is easier to say than done. Always meeting but troubles. You cannot really smile it out even if you want to.

Everyone need a break during all this hurdles. I did not realize until yesterday.

I had break her heart. Telling her that she was irresponsible. I truly understand what she meant right now.

I did not feel good the whole day. Heart ache and always missing. How i wish i could just look at you and say i am sorry and just accompany you for a day.

Even though now and then i am the one who always told her off. Instead of blaming, we got a strange but strong mutual understanding which we always forgive each other just a few minutes after a quarrel.

We are always learning one another. Always trying to give the best to the another one. I now knew why we always need a wallpaper of our love ones. Because it work. It brightens your day.

Knowing that your not fighting alone. An Angel is always looking out for you and always knew. Appreciate you. I just want to tell you. I really love you this much! Thanks for being with me for so long! Enduring those pains and those precious tears that went down that lovely cheeks. I love you.

Journey to ?

Do you remembers the days before you came into OGLs?

Nostalgic isn't it?

I do remember bits of it. When i first came to poly, i had intended to had a fresh start. A fresh start which means that no more nightmares for school days. It happened. Yes, it all began when i first participated in Camp Eagle.

It was an event with many memories, the joys of meeting new people and the sweat we made together. It was good isn't it?

Then we had endured through the FMO days with harsh treatments (With good intentions (somehow)).

Yes we did endured through it, in fact we endured all the events that came by us. A fascinating feat i would say for everyone who understands.

Then comes AGM, commissioning and then the whole new event by EXCOs(including myself).

We started to learn about many many things. Being a leader, a mentor. Responsibility suddenly surge into your blood like you're born with it.

So in order to be in expectations, we have begun to search high and low, for methods which could make our future batch a superior ones. In fact, in the midst of doing it, we did not care about ourselves but only to nurture and nurture and nurture.

Consequences starts to float onto the surface, the pillars starts to succumb instead. -Boom Boom Boom...-

Many thoughts are coming through our head right now (well at least i am), what did i done to deserve this things from happening, what happen to them, why can't we had a peaceful days.

I am puzzled. You may feel strange. In fact for those i'm one of them who kept on finding for the truth behind all those problems i have (pardon for my complacency) and now i think i had come back. Where? Right back from the start.

Now that i had dig so many places all over the place. I do not know which one is the true gold mine. Which is it? Where is it? Why can't i find it?

Suspicion, Silence, Depression and Hatred found inside for who i ever blame was? Myself.

*The more things you know, the more you actually don't know.

-The truth hurts-

Let me recover for whom will become a great friend, a great companion and create a legacy.

Social Etiquette

Its just plain respect when someone greeted you or bid farewell and greet back isn't it?

Its just plain stupid.
Yes you had a bad day, everyone knows. Its all over that pretty face of yours.
But i just want to tell you something, whether your bad mood or not, life still goes on, so, just greet back and say goodbye, at least.

Well as what Jade says today to Eeling which i think its perfectly true.

"You said that yourself ah, nobody wants to know actually."

Although its said in a kidding way, if it you think in a normal basis. It's really true. It does apply to normal day, nobody really wants to know what happen to you.

Shut up, stop whining and get a life. A book title by Larry Winget. Pretty cool.

"The truth hurts"

-Larry Winget

"Humans unhappiness comes from not facing reality squarely, exactly as it is"

-Buddha

Dilemma

Crap it out or just shut it up. This is one dilemma which everyone in the world has it. Be it youth or adults. It's the communication which brings forward to the next level but a dangerous step to take.

It's just like playing a MMORPG, with a superb weapon on hand, however in order to bring it to the next level, you need some materials and some luck. If else fails, the weapon will be gone forever.

The weapon would well be consider the relationship between humans. If you successfully merge it, you will get a better understanding with each other. If fails, you will get nothing and relationship with you and him will turns ugly.

Conclusion, bring forward or just give it up?

Take risks or cautious?